Success isn’t a result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire.
This really is a great quote. Not only is it interesting but also inspiring.
One of the truths that I find most frustrating as a coach is that many people believe that success, in whatever field of endeavor they are currently striving, is rather like winning the lottery. In fact, it certainly seems from the evidence that they in fact believe that success is even more random because they aren’t even buying a ticket. They are simply passively waiting.
If you listen to people talk you won’t hear many people voicing this opinion of success but look around you and watch what people are actually doing–or rather not doing–and you will quickly see what I mean.
Many people want things–they want to be rich, they want to be at the top of their profession, they want a successful marriage, they want to raise great kids, they want to be respected in their community, and so on.
But what do they do to achieve this success?
Are they working both hard and smart toward their financial goals and living frugally while they do so? Are they constantly learning and striving at their job? Are they showing their spouse love, consideration, understanding, and generosity? Are they spending time with their children both modeling how to be a good person and being generous with their love and understanding? Are they regularly proving themselves an asset within their community by being a good neighbor in every sense of the word?
We all know that we must accomplish these tasks to achieve success in these areas. I’ve probably missed something too. I am hardly a model of success in every area. I would in fact describe myself as fair to middling. I am certainly not rich but the bills get paid and our basics and then some are covered without too much stress. I’m now retired, but my former boss, peers, and subordinates think I am doing a pretty good job as well as I kept getting promoted. While my marriage is in fairly good shape, after 50+ years, but I know I could certainly put more into it. I think I have a great kids, grand kids and great-grand kids.
At the tender age of 18, after graduating from high school, I went to work in radio as an announcer. Commercial radio was 35 years old. Television? Nope. Internet? Double Nope! Radio was it and I decided to set myself on fire and become a success in the business.
Who could have imagined. Not my parents, not my teachers, not even my friends. But I was on fire and for 14 years I played the new music of the age – rock ‘n’ roll. Then I moved into management working up from the bottom and over 10 years went from rock ‘n’ roll disc-jockey to CEO of some of the largest and most interesting broadcast properties.
Why, fire in the belly and passion. I personally was proof that anyone could achieve success and the trappings that come with it.
How do YOU define success?
Is it money, career, love, marriage, family, friendship, respect, community?
For me, success is primarily about love. How many lives do I touch with mine? How many hearts? Who has been changed by my existence in a postive way? I hope that people judge me as a good person and that if I died tomorrow that there would be great mourning.
If we really want this success then we will set ourselves on fire. We won’t wait for spontaneous combustion.
[The quote is by Arnold H. Glasow]